Bob Baschoff used to work for a bank, commanding a corner office and a six-figure salary that allowed his family to enjoy a comfortable life in the wealthy lakefront village of Lake Bluff, Ill.
CHICAGO — Bob Baschoff used to work for a bank, commanding a corner office and a six-figure salary that allowed his family to enjoy a comfortable life in the wealthy lakefront village of Lake Bluff, Ill.
All of that is gone now.
Baschoff was laid off during the financial crisis of 2008 and hasn't found steady work since. The family lost one home to foreclosure and was evicted from two rentals. Though they're still in Lake Bluff — a relative is paying the rent on a modest ranch house — they must rely heavily on charity and the government for food, health care and other necessities.
"When I'm around the parents of my kids' friends or teammates, every guy I look at, it's like, 'I wonder what he does? What does he make? Why can't I do it?' " said Baschoff, 56, a barrel-chested, bespectacled man whose sandpaper voice betrays his South Jersey roots. "I feel so out of place. I feel like a misfit."
Though the recession has been hardest on low-income Americans, it is also present in some of the most affluent ZIP codes. Tales abound of formerly well-off families that have been tossed into an economic tailspin.
Adjusting to hardship after decades of security can be a humiliating education. Ben Horbacz, of Naperville, Ill., a former customer support professional who has been out of work for two years, recently became a client at Loaves and Fishes, the food pantry where he volunteers. When he made his first pickup, he was embarrassed to run into people he knew.
But pride, he said, quickly yielded to necessity.
"I think we've passed that hurdle," said Horbacz, 63. "I've gotten to the point where it doesn't really bother me."
It still bothers the Baschoffs, even though they've been lucky in some ways. Their fall has been cushioned by family, friends and social service agencies, and their four children continue to attend public schools that are among the best in the state.
Being broke, though, offers a steady diet of stress and indignity, no matter a person's address. The Baschoffs' marriage has frayed under the strain, and their children are nursing their own tender but well-hidden scars.
"I don't really think about it," said one of Baschoff's daughters, a 15-year-old sophomore. "When I think about it, I cry."
Life was good when Baschoff and his family moved from a New Jersey suburb of Philadelphia to Illinois in December 2007. His employer, a Lake Forest bank, wanted him to join the home office, and to sweeten the deal it agreed to temporarily pay the rent on a Lake Bluff house, Baschoff said.
But eight months after Baschoff arrived, the bank eliminated his position. He thought he would quickly find another job, but with the financial crisis reaching full boil, banks were shedding people, not hiring them.
Not even their New Jersey house, once estimated to be worth close to $300,000, could save them. Their tenants lost their jobs and stopped paying rent, and the Baschoffs couldn't make the mortgage. The house went into foreclosure and was sold last year for $186,000, according to public records.
With little cash in the bank, they quickly realized they couldn't make it on their own. In October 2008, less than two months after Baschoff lost his job, his wife walked into an Illinois Department of Human Services office to apply for food assistance and Medicaid.
It was, she recalled, a humbling experience. She felt that everyone, clients and clerks alike, was looking at her with suspicion, as if she were cheating the system. She turned her face into a dignified mask, showing no emotion until she reached the parking lot. Then she broke down in sobs.
Such reckonings have become a regular occurrence among people in affluent areas, according to some who work in social services. West Deerfield Township Supervisor Julie Morrison, whose territory includes parts of Lake Forest, Highland Park and Deerfield, said clients who come from privileged areas are much less savvy about the system than those accustomed to longer-term hardship.
"They have no idea how to file for unemployment benefits unless someone walks them through," she said. "They don't know all the benefits that are available to them."
Shields Township Supervisor Gale Strenger Wayne, who has assisted the Baschoffs, said that most of her clientele comes from North Chicago but that she has seen an influx of people from Lake Forest and Lake Bluff. Some live in million-dollar homes and have difficulty admitting they need help.
"Someone said to me, 'I drove around the building three different times before I could face the fact that I needed to come in and get some food,' " she said.
Filing for public aid, though, was just the start of the Baschoffs' indignities. Baschoff's former employer evicted them from their house eight months after he lost his job. They moved into another rental but were evicted when its owner decided to sell. They had no money for a storage unit, and many of their things were thrown away.
Baschoff said he looked diligently for full-time work but had no luck, forcing him to take odd jobs as a golf caddy, parking lot attendant and housecleaner. Lisa Baschoff, who had lingering complications from a double mastectomy, could find only a short seasonal stint at a sporting goods store.
Carl Van Horn, director of the Heldrich Center for Workforce Development at Rutgers University, said that's not surprising. While workers over 55 are less likely than the young to become unemployed, those who do lose their jobs have a harder time finding new ones.
That could be partly because older workers aren't as used to the job search as their younger competitors, he said. But discrimination is also a likely factor.
Potential employers "will look at a resume and think, 'Why isn't this person employed? There must be something wrong with them,' " he said. "They get stigmatized. They may never make it through the screening process, and it's difficult to hide age."
With their cash flow reduced to a trickle, the Baschoffs made major changes to their lifestyle. No more restaurants. No more vacations. No more Christmas tree, let alone gifts.
Baschoff started riding his bicycle everywhere instead of driving his faltering, gas-chugging, 10-year-old SUV. He withstood a long wait to get a pair of eyeglasses through Medicaid. (The glasses are made by prisoners, state officials said, and usually require several weeks to deliver.) The kids continually monitored how much money remained on the family's Link card, the electronic equivalent of food stamps.
Bob Baschoff's in-laws have tried to limit the children's distress by paying for their clothes and cellphones, as well as supplying a modest amount of spending money. Their schools have picked up the tab for books and supplies, Baschoff said, and contributions from boosters have allowed them to participate in sports and other activities.
Still, the economic gulf that separates them from their peers is obvious. While some of the kids' friends get new cars when they turn 16, Baschoff said he can't afford to buy one of his sons a $10 bicycle lock.
The Baschoffs' 15-year-old daughter said the struggle has built character. She has learned not to worry about trivial things such as parties and to look for happiness in the midst of gloom.
But it's difficult to find anything redemptive in what Baschoff and his wife have endured. Three years of hard times have left them in shock. Their marriage has been damaged by Baschoff's inability to find work and the one-sided generosity of his in-laws.
Americans historically have come back strong from periods of financial distress. Research by the Pew Charitable Trusts' Economic Mobility Project has shown that after the double-dip recession of the early 1980s, most people who lost a large chunk of income made it back within a decade. But a significant portion — about 1 in 9 — did not.
For the moment, Baschoff is trying to keep a foothold, however wobbly, on the economic ladder. His steadiest gig is at First Presbyterian Church of Lake Forest, where he makes $11 an hour doing part-time janitorial work and general labor.
A few days ago, he was lugging couches and other heavy furniture to prepare for the church's fall rummage sale. Within 30 minutes of starting his shift, he was already sweating through his polo shirt.
"He's willing to do anything we ask him to do," said Elizabeth Bradner, who helps run the sale. "He never considers anything beneath him."
Hustling from one corner of a congested storage room to another, Baschoff was obviously having fun. It felt good to be productive, to direct his fellow laborers as if he were a manager again. The dignity of work — any work — was enough to stir the last few embers of hope.
"Someday I'm going to frame my Link card and unemployment card and put them on the wall of my office," he said. "I want to see them every day, so I can promise myself it'll never happen again."